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The football book is strangely dull, yet curiously irresistible. Its title is confusing. The Dear England title currently is used by a hit theatrical production, an future television program, and a public letter authored by the manager in 2021.

This iteration of Dear England isn’t formally tied to any of those. It represents an anomaly in the Dear England Multiverse, a book about management: a traditionally dry top-level coach subject that the author sticks to doggedly, relying on the words “leader”, “guiding” or “leadership” a minimum of 500 times across the book’s entirety.

Themes Explored

“What defines a leader? What actions do leaders take? What insights do leaders have?” the author questions at the outset, establishing his position, but stopping short to ask “How are leaders?”, topics presumably reserved for a second book.

Otherwise, this book contains a notable absence throughout. It’s an attempt in subtly confrontational self-justification, in almost-but-not-quite expressing the underlying truth, jumping nimbly from unresolved issue to fresh pain across a collection of data visualizations, management jargon and digressions about 16th-century statesmen.

Engagement

Reading it is like overhearing your loved ones having a polite but profoundly personal debate in the nearby area while you’re striving to focus on a corporate presentation called “Numerous Justifications for My Ultimate Victory”. But it is also challenging to disengage, as Southgate keeps approaching to an issue you genuinely desire to learn about, before suddenly changing tack.

Insights

Readers will find always controversial revelations in publications like these, due to the intense fascination with the role of England manager. The most striking examples include: Southgate decided he was definitely going to resign as England manager after spectators threw cups at him at the Euros; he nearly decided to forfeiting the game at the interval against Bulgaria in 2019 after his players were subjected to racism; he introduced the concept of set-piece coaches and all teams in the English football is now copying him; he has now abandoned his enthusiasm for the sport, a startling confession thrown away in a brief section at the end.

Managing England through a period of anger, hope, turmoil and pandemic restrictions was a harsh journey. The scars are clearly still unhealed.

Predictable Elements

Throughout much of the book, the content is flooded with an AI-style verbal clutter of generic management talk. Advanced copies of this book were distributed with journalists under confidentiality clauses before release, likely out of concern someone might reveal that “tough talks can, by their very essence, be challenging”, that you should always think before you act, that leadership occurs where transformation intersects with compassion.

Genuine Feeling

The book contains nonetheless genuine sentiment within. Guiding England through a period of anger, aspiration, upheaval and pandemic restrictions was a grueling experience. The bruises are obviously still unhealed, albeit conveyed in a jargon-laden reinterpretation of the traditional coach story: how my decisions were correct about everything throughout.

Specific Examples

The publication’s initial chapter, disguised as thrilling recollections of the final of the tournament, is all about how successful he really was at player changes (the big criticism of Southgate revolving around he was not successful at making changes). Subsequently, he explores great depth about how he managed the championship match of 2021 impeccably – notably the losing penalty shootout – because he complied with a established procedure, which implies that introducing inexperienced squad members in the closing stages to take the biggest attempt of their careers was logical and right.

That approach was confirmed by a winning tiebreaker against the Swiss team four years later after a fixture where England spent the entire match looking as if they were trying to don a sweater the backwards. “Our dominance in that penalty decider was truly exciting,” Southgate notes, in between equating the showing to US Navy Seals killing a high-profile target. Oh Gareth.

Avoided Revelations

When we come near to a disclosure, he backs away from identifying individuals or sharing the substance. We hear there were challenging England players who insisted on more attention, maybe because they were spoilt at the start of their careers. But as you anticipate expectantly, he is quickly shifting into an area titled The Culture Code, which claims that instead of a grouping of characteristics or principles, team environment is in fact something that is formed by, unfortunately, please, that’s sufficient.

Strengths

Included in the more compelling sections are when he explores about the gradual process of developing fortitude in youth, or how he sought to articulate national identity more coherently and more helpfully than any public personality in the limelight. Most impressively, there is a genuinely gripping account of that traumatic evening in the Bulgarian capital where England’s African heritage squad members were subjected to vile treatment (and subsequently supported robustly by their leader).

Heartfelt Conclusion

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